Office Romance by John Seeley

With the workplace dominating most of our waking time, it’s inevitable that romance blooms. The question is whether to act on it or not? The answer is, it depends. First consider the company policy. There may be specific rules already set. Then consider what kind of relationship may develop. Are you looking for just casual dating? If so then the workplace isn’t the place to look. Think about how it would be to have to see an ex or several daily. Not the best for good working conditions. If however, you are looking for something serious, and so is your potential date, you may still have the same possibilities, but at least the risk and reward are more in line. Another factor is the sexual harassment policy of the company. If there is a boss-subordinate relationship, it could prove a bad personal and business decision.

If you are fellow co-workers, and all seems agreeable between you, caution is still the word. Even in the best relationships, there are good and bad times. So be prepared for both. One rule that helps is to keep strictly professional at work. It makes both parts of your lives, better. It’s a rare situation when two people in a committed relationship can spend 24hours a day together. So it’s important to plan some separate time. Hobby time, sports, girls/boys night, all offer a break to maintain the health of the relationship. Remember just as in any other relationship, good communication is essential. If you decide to take the relationship road in business, go with caution and watch out for the red flags. If you decide to make the trip, enjoy the ride.